I just had to do one on brothers after my convo Myclette. I really dont understand why brothers think the world owes them. For me I have 13 brothers and sisters, yes thirteen. Other than my little sister my brothers are lazy and refuse to do anything they dont want to. If my brothers are in the mood to do something they will do it but after an hour if they arent done with it they give up and leave what ever it was unfinished. I actually got one of them to fix my table and chairs well guess what happened next. He got bored with it and decited they were good Enough and that he was done a week later the only thing I had left was the table thank GOD he fix that one first. Not to good for those who fell out of those chairs or through them...lol. This brother in particular has had ONE job his hole life and it was for extra credit for school after a month he quit. His reasoning was I hate washing the dishes they keep making me do it. WOW I worked in a resturaunt for over 4 years and I understand WASHING DISHES. You got to do what you have to if you want to get anywhere. He just doesnt understand that for some reason or another. He even got with draw failer from school and was told that he could not step on school grounds ever again. He spends his days smoking and drinking or playing video games and if my mother or I dont give him money he goes and pons anything and everything he can no matter if they are mine or my mothers aslong as it isnt his he gets rid of it. I have lost rings, stereos, speakers, xboxs, and so much more. He is also very abusive to everyone. If he doesnt get his way he will lose it. He started by taking it out on my car when he was borrowing it. I would get it back with more dents dings or missing mirrors and the broken windows. I has also sent me to the hospital once or twice. I turned him in once and my mother told me that she would dis own me if I did it again. She is always on his side saying that I had to of started it one way or another. Another one of my brothers well he made it through high school and is doing his thing playing college ball but I am the one helping him get through it. I send him money every 3 to 6 days and he says he has a job over there. Everytime we talk I hear in the backround hey whos buying the drink. Or what we doing tonight or we have to celebrate. I dont want to be supporting his drinking and partying every week. I would be fine with helping him with his rent but I dont think it goes to it. If I dont do for him he cuses me out. He swears up and down that he will pay me back I really dout it. I have another brother who gets money hides it from everyone then when he wants to go somewhere and we just so happend to be going to town so we say as long as you have a place to stay ill take you. Well I get a place ot stay for the night and just as I lay my head down I get a phone ringing. Its my brother asking if he can get a ride home. Well I dont want to drive to pick him up on the otherside of town and i dont want to drive an hour to take him home. But if I dont do it my mother will drive in from home and then drive right back out. No wonder she has to move out of her house and try and find a new place by the first of the month. She has already had two strokes and two heart attacks im surpised that she has lasted this long.

I really want to help my brothers and my mother but I am starting to have health problems because if it. I have been having chest pains and headaches and I just cant shake the cold I have. My father is no help once he gets paid he pays his drug dealer for more drugs and I dont see him till he needs money or a ride. I really feel bad for the little ones that dont need to see any of this. I try my best to give them what they need but Im not their mother and they have the hardest time understanding why. I help them with homework get their clothes for them make sure they eat and wash. have them clean when need be. I take them to chuck E cheese and to the parks and so on. My mother is working so much and the only time she is home is when they are at school. Our credit is so bad that we cant get any loans and she just got out of bankrupt.